salam maal hijrah <3  

Sunday 28 December 2008

.assalamualaikum.
.salam maal hijrah 1430.

kehadirannya ku sambut dgn penuh syukur.
alhamdulillah kerana kita dapat bertemu.
alhamdulillah kerana Dia mengizinkan aku ntuk terus bernafas di dunia ini. aku mengharapkan::
agar setiap perkara yg akan ku lakukan selepas ini lebih bermakna dari sebelumnya.
dan aku akan terus kuat dan berusaha dengan gigih bagi mencapai matlamat hdup ku.


!!!the wOrld exists for u guys !!!
!!! dont u give up !!!

From Mu'adh bin Jabal, radiyallahu 'anhu, who said: I said:

"O Messenger of Allah, tell me of a deed which will take me into Paradise and will keep me away from the Hell-fire." He said: "You have asked me about a great matter, yet it is, indeed, an easy matter for him to whom Allah Almighty makes it easy. (It is ) that you worship Allah without associating anything with Him, that you perform the prayers, that you pay the zakat, that you fast during Ramadan, and that you make the pilgrimage to the House."

Then he said: "Shall I not guide you to the gates of goodness? Fasting is a shield; charity extinguishes sin as water extinguishes fire; and a man's prayer in the middle of the night." Then he recited: "Who forsake their beds to cry unto their Lord in fear and hope, and spend of that We have bestowed on them. No soul knoweth what is kept hid for them of joy, as a reward for what they used to do". [Qu'ran, Surah al-Sajdah (32): Ayah 16-17]

Then he said: "Shall I not also tell you of the peak of the matter, its pillar, and its topmost part?" I said: "Yes, O Messenger of Allah." He said: "The peak of the matter is Islam (submission to Allah), the pillar is prayer; and its topmost part is jihad." Then he said: "And shall I not tell you of the controlling of all that ?" I said:" Yes, O Messenger of Allah". So he took hold of his tongue and said: "Restrain this." I said: "O Prophet of Allah, will we be held accountable for what we say?" He said: "May your mother be bereft of you! Is there anything that topples people on their faces (or he said, on their noses) into the Hell-fire other than the jests of their tongues?"

[Related by Al-Tirmidhi, who said it was a fine and sound hadith]



p/s :
ku dOakan semoga saudara2 ku disana selamat dan dalam redhaMu. sesungguhnya aku yakin dengan pertOlOngan dan aturan Mu ya Allah. ameen..



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gaining sOme weight?  

Sunday 21 December 2008

.cm ne ni...
.i tak suke diet2 ni.
.tapi berat badan da bertambah sejak winter kali ini.
[gyabO!]
.tiap kali winter je mesti da bertambah berat badan.
.pipi2 ni da seperti diadun dengan bicarbOnat,naik sekali. huhu
.mule2 tak kisah ngn ketembaman diri,
.tapi bile tengOk hikki semakin kurus, i jadi jeles.
.pOmpuan Oh pOmpuan.
.walaupun tak suke dgn ke"chubby"an diri.
.tapi,aku tak nk jgk berdiet.wiwiwiwi
.nnt time summer,i'll be loosing some weight for sure.hehe

.cOunting days to return hOme.
.wah tak sabarnye.
.nak makan kOpOk lekor and seafOOd banyak2.

till then.bye2.

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A fatal disease?  

Tuesday 16 December 2008

! depression : watch for these warnings !

the winter holiday season is upon us and, for a variety of reasons, this is one of the more common times for people to experience symptoms of depressiOn.

Even though it turns out that the suicide rate is not truly increased during this time of year, December is Seasonal Depression Awareness Month in the United States and thus a good time to review some facts about this insidious and troubling disease.

Several distinct psychological diagnoses are related to depressiOn. Most people have heard of the more serious conditions, like major depression and bipolar illness ("manic-depression disorder :: MDD"). More common, however, are a group of mood disorders that cause similar but perhaps less severe symptoms.

Seasonal affective disorder, stress reactions, and low mood are some examples. Many patients are surprised to hear that anxiety and panic are closely related to depression. It turns out that the underlying biological changes and the initial treatment of most of these depression-related diagnoses are quite similar.

There are multiple possible causes for depression, and also multiple ways to treat it. Like everything else in medicine, though, the first step is to recognize and diagnose the problem. What follows are some warning signs to look for in yourself and in your loved ones.


::Sadness::

Simply feeling down, sad, or "blue" is a big clue. Crying frequently or easily is another symptom. I sometimes have patients who initially state that they are not sad, but what they are really saying is that they have no reason to feel sad that they are indeed feeling down but not because of any particular cause. Depressed patients typically just feel sad, without knowing why. And the other side of the coin is very important as well: You don't have to feel sad to have depression.

::Other mood changes::
Anxiety, panic, guilt, hopelessness, and a low sense of self-worth are all common symptoms of depression.

::Abnormal sleep::

This can be too much or too little sleep, or even a combination of the 2, with increased sleep during the day and difficulty sleeping at night. Insomnia of any kind can be a symptom of depression. In particular, waking up very early in the morning (approximately between 2 a.m. and 5 a.m.) and then finding it hard to get back to sleep is strongly associated with stress, anxiety, and depression.

::Fatigue or low energy::

This may be closely related to sleep disturbance, but some depressed patients feel groggy or tired even after a full night's sleep and often feel the need to take one or more naps during the day. A milder version of this is simply feeling dragged out and having less energy than usual.

::Appetite change::

People with depression may have an increased or a decreased appetite.

::Poor motivation::

Lack of interest and/or participation in social activities is commonly seen in depressed patients. Others will have good intentions of getting things accomplished, but find it hard or impossible to get started or to complete some or all tasks.

::Sexual dysfunction::

Closely related to poor motivation is lack of interest in sex (reduced libido). Other sexual symptoms can include erectile dysfunction (difficulty achieving or maintaining erection), difficulty reaching orgasm, and lack of enjoyment of sex.

::Anhedonia::

This is the medical term for an inability to feel pleasure in situations that once were enjoyable. Depression tends to rob people of their enjoyment of all sorts of things that used to bring them joy.

::"Brain fog"::

Depression can slow mental functioning. Common symptoms include forgetfulness, clouded thinking, poor concentration, difficulty performing simple calculations, and trouble making decisions.

::Psychomotor retardation::

(or its opposite, activation)

People with depression often speak and move more slowly and are slower than usual to respond to conversation or other stimuli. They also may have a flat affect, meaning their facial and emotional expressions are markedly reduced and they speak in a monotonous voice. On the other hand, some depressed patients become agitated and have trouble sitting still or relaxing.

::Thoughts about death::

Obviously, thinking about suicide—and especially having a plan to commit suicide is a warning sign of serious depression. A less severe but more common (and still worrisome) related symptom is having a passive death wish. Patients with passive death wish have no plan or intent to harm themselves; they just feel that things would be better if they were dead or had never been born.

::Somatization::

Depression tends to make everything worse, and can even cause physical pain, dizziness, and a variety of other abnormalities in just about any part of the body. Somatization is when a person unconsciously expresses psychologic distress in the form of real and significant physical symptoms — so when a patient has symptoms that remain totally unexplained even after a thorough medical evaluation, a diagnosis of depression is worth considering.

Please be aware here that if a doctor suggests to you that your physical problems may stem from your being depressed, he or she is not telling you that "it's all in your head" or that you're making it all up or faking your symptoms.

The simple explanation of somatization is that depression involves poorly understood changes in brain chemistry, and those changes sometimes result in exaggerating the degree of pain, or even in creating a sensation of bodily dysfunction when in fact nothing is medically wrong with that body part.



Of course, most of the symptoms of depression on this long list can be due to any number of medical problems. Regardless of the underlying cause, if you recognize several of these warning signs in yourself or in a loved one, it's time for a thorough medical or psychological evaluation to determine if any treatment is needed.

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p/s : i dont think life is quite that simple..and stress happens to everyOne..juz, try to believe and love urself.live life to the fullest=D

"wahai umat manusia! sesungguhnya telah datang kepada kamu al-Quran yang menjadi nasihat pengajaran dari Tuhan kamu, dan yang menjadi penawar bagi penyakit-penyakit batin yang ada di dalam dada kamu, dan juga menjadi hidayah petunjuk untuk keselamatan,serta membawa rahmat bagi orang-orang yang beriman."
-surah yunus: 57
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heppy eid~  

Sunday 7 December 2008

.
.i'm missing my mOm sO much.
.isk2..nak balik raya rumah.
.and to thOse peOple yg pernah bertakhta di hati ini,

.dan akn selamanya berada di hati ini [esp ami and aida =D]
.i miss u all too.
.sOrry for all my wrOng dOings.
.semOga kita dpt bertemu suatu hari nnt.
.ku dOakan kalian sentiasa dalam rahmatnya slalu.
.frenship fOrever.

raya kali ni sepi kerana kerinduan dan kesepian terlampau..


p/s : maaf zahir dan batin.
**tO amOuni, nnt esOk aku datang rumah kau ye.
kau rajin masak.tak cm aku .malas2..hehe

**to nini.. nnt kite p makan dumpling ye
[pi terus kata nini =P]

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dearest stranger  

Friday 5 December 2008











.love this too.[link]


p/s :

dearest my miss oral pathOlogy bOok,
i'm sOrry that i lost u..so sOrry.
i wont say that " menyesal bawak buku ni.." again. never.
..i do love yOu..

-belajar menghargai sesudah kehilangan mu-

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her shOrt stOries  

Wednesday 3 December 2008




.i'm listening to her shOrt stories.
.and i fall in love with her.
.and the truth is, i love her since the very first time i heard her.
.and i dont remember when.
.its juz..i like her =)
-simple and sincere-




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